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You’ve Been Lied To—Why Most Christians Stay Stuck in a Disconnected Life

--By Laura G, the Destiny Whisperer

Read Time: 4 min

Spiritual Band-Aids Covering the Same Unhealed Wounds.

YOU’VE BEEN LIED TO

Not by God. Not even by yourself. But by a system that has never shown you how to break free. You keep asking, ‘What is God’s will for my life?’ But year after year, you’re still stuck. You wonder if you’ve missed something—if you somehow stepped off God’s path.


But Here’s The Truth:
🚨 You’re not lost.
🚨 You’re not failing.
🚨 You’re just following a script that was never meant to lead you to freedom.

And it’s not because you’re not trying hard enough. It’s because no one ever told you the truth about why you’re stuck.


Here’s The Good News: Today, I’m going to show you exactly what’s been holding you back—and what a divinely designed life looks like.

The Story of Spiritual Frustration

Let me introduce you to Joanna. Every Sunday morning, she’s in the third row at church, Bible highlighted and color-coded, taking notes on every word. Her Instagram feed? Filled with Bible verses and faith quotes. Her life? Packed with church commitments, volunteering, and small group meetings.

But when she drives home alone… something feels off. There’s an emptiness she can’t shake. Every January, she makes the same commitments:
✔ Buys new journals
✔ Downloads prayer apps
✔ Sets daily devotional reminders


But In The Quiet Moments, She Battles Thoughts She’d Never Share In Small Group.

❌ Why do other people seem to get their breakthrough so easily?
❌ Why do my prayers feel like they’re bouncing off the ceiling?
❌ Maybe I’m just not trying hard enough. Maybe I’m not spiritual enough.
By December, she’s exactly where she started—more spiritual band-aids covering the same unhealed wounds. Joanna isn’t alone. She represents millions of believers trapped in what I call ‘The Disconnected Life.’

It’s a wash, rinse and repeat life. Let’s face it, in the darkest moments we feel like this Jesus thing in our lives hasn’t lived up to the biblical standard portrayed in the book of Acts. Most Christians are not living a supernatural life they’re just trying harder and the harder we try to fix ourselves more stuck we become. So, let’s step into the light and see what living a disconnected life really looks like. Because if you’re stuck and you


Let’s break it down:
SAVED BUT NOT FREE You believe in Jesus but still live in bondage. Being saved doesn’t automatically mean being free. DEFEAT INSTEAD OF VICTORY Your prayers feel powerless. Religion teaches behavior modification instead of spiritual transformation. RELAPSE & CYCLES You keep falling into old habits, old sins, and old thinking patterns because no one has shown you how to break the cycle. SPIRITUAL OPPRESSION You feel like something is resisting your progress, but you can’t name it. You’re fighting the wrong battles. LACK OF DIRECTION The system teaches obedience to structure, not alignment with divine purpose. You’re moving but not progressing. LACK OF FULFILLMENT You do all the ‘Christian things’ but still feel empty. The enemy doesn’t need to destroy you, he just needs to keep you distracted.

So, the 1st step in healing is to be aware that you need it. The 2nd step is to contrast it with the abundant Life that Jesus lived and promised us.

Now the first thing you should notice about the Divinely Directed Life is that it’s uncomplicated! Four areas that when we actually examine Jesus’s life we can see very clearly that this is how he lived. Therefore this is how we should live.
ADVENTUROUS Faith isn’t safe—it’s about stepping into the unknown with God.
PURPOSEFUL You’re not guessing anymore—you move with divine clarity.
POWERFUL You’re not just surviving—you’re transforming, influencing, and making real change.
PASSIONATE Your spiritual life isn’t dull or routine—it’s alive, full of fire, and deeply fulfilling.

I dare say if you were to ask 10 Christians how Jesus lived they wouldn’t say above 4 things. It would be more likely couched in what I call religious dogmatic blither. Which is neither practical nor understandable and it’s not relevant to how we live our lives today. Take a look at Jesus’s life and hold it up against the four descriptors.

But the key is what is in the middle of that chart. THE DIRECTOR. You’re not the Director your pastor is not the Director your favorite YouTube parachurch ministry leader is not the Director; the Bible is not to Director. He who lives in you is the Director, the Conductor, the Pilot, the one who holds everything together. Did you notice that? The Abundant Life is Divinely Directed!

You Don’t Have to Try Harder.

You Don’t Have to Try to Make Yourself Holier Than Thou.

You Just Have to Cooperate With Holy Spirit.

If you’ve felt stuck, if you’ve been spinning in circles, if you’re exhausted from trying harder but seeing no change—
🔥 It’s not because you lack faith.
🔥 It’s not because God isn’t listening.

🔥 But it is allowing Him to Direct and being receptive to His way of being and doing things

Are you ready to break free from the Disconnected Life and start living the way Jesus actually intended?
👇 Drop a comment: What’s the #1 thing keeping you stuck right now?
Join me in our next session where we’ll go deeper into breaking spiritual cycles. Let’s step into real freedom—together.

Hello, I’m Laura G, co-founder of B Significant. Our Mandate Is To Reject Religiosity And Reclaim Spirituality Through Divine Inner Healing And Revolutionary Mentoring.

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